Value?

June 3, 2009

Out of all the friends who don’t talk to him anymore, I still stuck on. So maybe not as a girlfriend cuz well, I need to look out for me as well. But I am still around as a friend.

Yet the funny thing is, he doesn’t want to talk to ME now.

With the distance, the fights and the lack of communication between us, it was difficult to stay in a relationship together. Particularly if he wasn’t gonna make any sacrifices for me.

But we could still stay on as friends. Maybe things will change in the future.

But here’s the irony; his ex dumped him, his bestie isn’t talking to him anymore and I still do but now he doesn’t wanna talk to me.

“Wipe that tear away now, from your eye,” 

This is what happens when you try to be nice or do the right thing. Folk step on you and take advantage of that. Even the people you least expect to will do it.

It’s funny. Instead of knowing that he has issues and accepting them, his ego won’t permit him. Logically speaking, if 3 people have had issues with him, one should know by now that the common denominator in this problem. . .is you.

So fix the issues instead of lamenting how everyone ELSE might have a problem apart from you. Accept your flaws, embrace them and then FIX them. Things will change.

 I know you don’t wanna talk to me again.  But I know you’re still gonna read. So if this is the only way I can reach out to you, then so be it.

You’re a nice person if you only see that your immaturity and your ego hold you back from being a pleasant person people are going to want to be around, particularly people you love. You’re 23, it’s time to stop depending on things given to you from home and make a living for yourself. You’re a man now and tho you’ve called me a spoilt brat, at least I have a sense of responsibility to myself and my future partner; I know I need to get a job and succeed in life by helping others. Unless you stay with your folks for the rest of your life, forever shielded by their efforts to protect you from the bad bad world out there, you’re never gonnna be able to live and you’ll have a job but is it really a job you worked hard to earn? No. It was given to you by your parents. There’s no accomplishment in that. And if you think about it, the spoilt brat here is not me.

It’s you.

No college degree and you’re still living in with your folks. People your age over there are already married or in some university elsewhere. You’re stuck in a rut. You need to get out. If you take care of yourself, only then can you take care of a girl you love.

Stop depending on your comfort zone and grow up. It’s about time.